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He doesn’t like the flash. Look at his eyes wide open because of the bright light.

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It’s been quite a while since I last was able to write a decent and original blog. I don’t know why, though I know that I don’t have everything and I am not as rich as other people to be able to go and reach breath taking places, I know for a fact that everyday is a wonderful blessing. Everyday is a new day to start doing new things and remembering even just the simplest memories you’ve made that day, because everyday is worth remembering especially when you are with the people you love the most. It doesn’t matter whether you just stay at home all day or go places you’ve never been. I believe that God created tomorrow for a reason so we should always make the most out it, before it’s too late.

My husband is in abroad but our son is here with me, so I have decided to blog every single day of my life. I am not promising though, but I will do my best to blog every important detail of life, so I can also have something that I can let my husband read, so he would be updated about me and our son.

I’m so excited! Hahaha.. Tomorrow will be the beginning of something new and fresh. Rock n roll and goodluck to me! :)

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Letting go was never as easy as it sounds. Most particularly, if you never chose to let go. You really just have no choice, but to let go, because that’s what your partner asked from you, TO LET GO.

Letting go never meant that you loved best. Pain is also never a reason to let go. Because if you really love someone like you say you do, you will never let go no matter how difficult things get between the two of you.

“Maybe someday we’ll be together again…” That reason is just plain b*llsh*t. Our so-called “Destiny” is a lie. It is the choices that we make that make things happen.

Relationships last long not because they were meant to last long. Relationships last long because two brave people chose to make it last long — to work for it, to fight for it, and to keep it.

Meanwhile, relationships end not because it was not meant to be. It ended because both people, or one of the two, chose to let each other go.

Letting go is certainly heartbreaking. Most especially if you learned to live your life every single day with that person who let you go. Letting go of someone you love is like mourning over someone who just died. That person punches a whole into your chest, takes everything from you, and brings every piece of you with them. And then, leaves you broken into pieces… Melancholic, heartsick, and miserable.

But letting go is not the end of life. It may be really hard to adjust at first, but eventually, you’ll get over it, and move on.

When love dies, we never have to die with it. ‘Coz there is more to life than just the love you recently lost. There’s a whole world to be explored out there.

God would never allow our lives to be made miserable by someone not meant for us. He just challenges our faith in Him. ‘Coz in His perfect time, all things will be beautiful for us. He has bigger and greater plans for us. We might not understand at first, but eventually, if we just surrender ourselves to Him, we will understand.

Jer 29:11 (NIV) “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”

this is a little something i composed way back feb 2011.. i was supposed to send this to you through text but i wasn’t able to do so.. and i totally forgot that i composed something like this for you.. as i was browsing and deleting some messages from my drafts, i came to open this again and realized that you haven’t read it yet, ever. and so, even though a year has passed and a lot of things has changed, my love for you ever since then hasn’t changed a bit, in fact, it became stronger.. i dedicate this short message to you.. I LOVE YOU  WITH ALL MY HEART :)

I may never be the girl who has always been there for you for years..

I may have never been or will never be the pretty popular girl nor the brainy cheerleader whom you’ve always adored..

I may have never witnessed your tears and your laughter in the years gone by..

Neither will I ever be the girl who has constantly swept you off your feet..

And I may have never been a part of your past..

But, despite all the things I may have never been and will never be, I am glad that I can say that I can be your present and your future..

I can be the girl who can show you the true meaning of love..

I can be the girl who will always be there for you no matter what, through good and bad times, through ups and downs, and through thick and thin..

I can be the girl who will NEVER EVER HURT you nor will ever LEAVE you..

I can always be there whenever you need me..

The silly girl who can make you laugh your heart out, wipe your tears with my hanky, and hug you whenever you feel like crying..

I will stay by your side through this roller coaster ride-like life of ours..

If you let me..

I WILL..

I ALWAYS WILL..

As long as you want me to..

Through all these..

I LOVE YOU..

ALWAYS.